A free 90-minute virtual experience
You're Not
Behind
Stop apologizing for the season you're in. Learn to steward it with clarity, peace, and purpose.
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Virtual via Zoom · Replay included · Workbook included
What you'll leave with
Three shifts. Ninety minutes.
How to name the season you're actually in
Stop borrowing someone else's timeline. Get clear on what this chapter is for — and what it isn't.
How to stop apologizing in your tone
The exact language shift that ends performing readiness and starts stewarding the truth of where you are.
A framework for stewarding the next 90 days
Walk away with a practical, faith-anchored plan for the season you're in — not the one you thought you'd be in.
Who this is for
You think you're behind.
You're not.
You've been carrying a timeline that was never yours.
Your mother's timeline. Your peers' timeline. The version of yourself you imagined at 25.
So now you find yourself apologizing in your tone, performing in your texts, and catching up in conversations that never required an explanation.
You scroll past the engagement post and feel something tighten. The promotion announcement. The pregnancy reveal. The new house.
You smile, like the post, and keep moving.
But underneath it, the same sentence keeps running:
It was supposed to happen by now.
This room is where that sentence loses its authority.
The truth no one told you
There is no behind.
There is only the season you are actually in, and the responsibility to steward it well.
The years you spent in private were not wasted.
The healing years. The caregiving years. The rebuilding years. The praying-in-private years. The years no one applauded.
They were not proof that you were delayed.
They were part of your development.
You do not have to apologize for them anymore.
What this 90 minutes is
Not a pep talk.
Not a vague permission slip. Not another room telling you to dream bigger while ignoring what you have survived.
This is a guided experience for the woman who is tired of running someone else's race.
Bring your notebook. Bring the version of yourself who is tired of catching up.
Leave with language, clarity, and a new posture for the season you are actually in.

Your host
Jessica V.
Toussaint
Strategist for purpose-driven people & missions
Jess is the strategist purpose-driven women call when they are ready to stop performing readiness and start stewarding their actual assignment.
She has been the woman who thought she was behind. The one apologizing for years spent in seasons no one applauded. The one watching peers move forward and wondering when her turn would come.
Her turning point was not a milestone. It was a decision.
To stop measuring her life against someone else's clock and start stewarding the season she was actually in.
She created You're Not Behind so you can make that same decision with clarity, not shame.
What's included
Everything you need,
completely free
90-Minute Live Session
Real-time teaching with Jess. Direct, grounded, and practical.
Guided Workbook
A companion to help you process what you are releasing, what you are reclaiming, and what this season requires.
Replay Access
Can't make it live? Watch on your own time. The replay is yours to keep.
Questions
Before you register
Yes. Everyone who registers gets the replay, even if you can't attend live.
No. You can come exactly as you are — camera off, notebook open, in your pajamas. This is your room.
Register anyway. You'll get the replay, the workbook, and access to revisit it whenever you need it.
Yes. The 90-minute session, the workbook, and the replay are all free. No upsell required to participate.
Purpose-driven women who are tired of measuring their lives against someone else's clock and ready to steward the season they're actually in.
You have been catching up long enough.
One Saturday.
One decision.
One room.
Where you do not have to apologize for your timeline.
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